Quarrels

though we kno dt fights r nt gud.. n they dnt solve nething.. u hv2 be rational whn there's a problem.. n shouting and arguing dsnt solve a thing.. thats what we've been told since d tym we were kiddos..

but ds smthing called a good quarrel exist?? 

m jst cnfused bw dese2 alternatives: is it smthing that instantly helps u find a solution or a fight where both d oppononts are equally enthu n it goes on endlessly??? 

in my case its d latter..

ya well i can be irrational mst tymes to get my way n create a hill out of a mole but isnt dat wht every1 ds jst to prove that they hv a point..

you shout n clench ur teeth.. make expressions dt appear funny 2 an onlooker.. u tk ur anger out on things arnd you.. nd eventually end up hurtin urslf more..n dn we end up realizing hw futile d topic wr n so wer d argumnts..

quarrels r definitely useless but i guess thay hv becum a reflex 2 even d silliest thing tht gets on to ur nerves.. hope the realization of d futility comes b4 we even strt to objct..